Thursday, January 21, 2010

What is an appropriate time a married woman should come home from a nightclub if she is out without her hubby?

She is not fooling around at all, she is just out having fun dancing, what do u think is appropriate time and what is a completely uncalled for time?What is an appropriate time a married woman should come home from a nightclub if she is out without her hubby?
It really depends on where you live and what time everything shuts down. Here, the bars close at 2, so I would say any time between 12 and 1 would be good... staying til they're closed is pushing it, and coming home a while after they've been closed is unacceptable.What is an appropriate time a married woman should come home from a nightclub if she is out without her hubby?
A married woman IMO should not even think about going to the club without her man period. A club is really for singles to get out and have a blast or married couples to go out and have a good time together. If your married and go to the club without your man you are only asking for trouble. At a Club anything goes your dancing and some sexed crazy guy will eventually cling on you and dance with you and get all touchy feely You will definatly be tempted and what not and it just really means red flag. Even if you do not attend to fool around or what not still stuff will happen. Plus its draws a concern too that your hubby is at home while your parting it up like a sexed crazed single woman. Sorry to say though that once your married you kinda carry responsibilitys and most of that fun partying as a single woman or crazed teen kinda needs to end unless your hubby is a party guy too and tags along.
Whatever time she is ready to come home! Jeez, she's his wife, not his daughter. Keep in touch during the night with progress reports, a quick text or call to say ';I'll be home at x time'; or ';we'r going to a party back in a friends'; or whatever.





And if she's out without her hubby she's most likely out with her girl friends. And if she has kids, nights out with the girls are probably few and far between.





It doesn't hurt to have a life of your own when your married or in a long term relationship. It's healthy to be able to go out and have fun every now and then with your own friends.





As long as everyone stays faithful, it's fine. It never causes a prob for me and my man, on either side of the fence. We don't have trust issues. The only concern is that the other gets home safely. At some stage of the night! ;)
Whatever expectation you talked about before going out.





I always communicate it with my husband. I'll be home after last call. I'll be home by midnight. If not, I'll call or text you. If we are hitting a late night eatery then I'll let him know that too.





Uncalled for? Anything after 3 probably. Or not calling at all. Marriage is about communication. If you can't handle it you shouldn't be married.
';Appropriate'; would be what society at large deems an acceptable curfew. What society thinks shouldn't matter as long as your spouse is okay with a certain time.





For the record, I would say 1-2 a.m...I wouldn't feel ashamed telling people I came in at that hour.
um she's not a child, and she doesn't need a curfew! she can come home whenever she wants. as long as she is completely faithful to you, then there should be no problem. she shouldn't be on a leash.
Any time she wants. If she is not fooling around whats the difference. And if she is fooling around what can she do after the appropriate time that she couldn't do before?
Two...if anything later I think you should call. Time flies when you are having fun...I understand. Not every weekend, though.
Whenever she feels like it. If the relationship is strong, it shouldn't matter.
However long it takes her (or the taxi) to drive home after the club closes.
one is ok, two is pushing it, three or later....you're tossed to the curb
if she's with her man, she's okay but she should not go out to a club without him.
when they close the club

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