Sunday, January 17, 2010

What are peoples opinions of unhappily married women who lead single men on?

Is this the right thing to do to lead a man on say ';You're such a great friend.'; and hint at wanting a LOT more from him than simple friendship, able to push all his right buttons until you've turned him into a quivering mess and when you have him right where you want him totally back off.





Lets not forget the person who did this is in a thoroughly abusive and unhappy marriage.What are peoples opinions of unhappily married women who lead single men on?
if he knows she is married he should back off because legally she belongs to someone else. the woman needs to decide what she wants from life and not involve anyone else until she is free.What are peoples opinions of unhappily married women who lead single men on?
My opinion of unhappy married it that: Married is for everyone. But if you want to be happy, start it with a strong foundation.Friendship is the best key to all of it. Acceptance and financial stability. Married become unhappy if you were not financially stable, immature and lack of self love and confidence. Don't married if you like only his looks. Because it would fade away specially if you have in counter trials along the way. Accept each of you as who you are and adjust, gave and take things that within to both of you.





But since you are already there, acceptance is only the key to regain yourself.
She's no better than a man who keeps another woman on the side, stringing her along for years saying that he's unhappily married, and one day he'll leave his wife. If her marriage is that bad, she's going to have to deal with it at some point. Bringing a third person into the mix won't solve anything, and will only cause further problems for everyone concerned.
She is trying to replace the attention she is not getting from her husband. I would say ';Find your own man, and leave mine alone. We may not be married, but I love him'; If she is that unhappy, she needs to work on her marriage, or leave and find someone that will fulfill her needs, not try to play with other guy's heads. How would she feel if guys played with hers? Guys are only looking for a ';booty call'; when they fool with married women anyway!! It is safe, because she can't ask for a commitment.
I can understand why someone who does that is in an abusive relationship. Nobody wants to be led on and then shut down for no reason. But to keep throwing the main meal out on the table and then pulling it off when somebody sits down will end up getting you knocked around a little. Not that I would do that, but too many other guys I know would, they would like the way the table setting looked and woiuld think it's all for them and feel it's their right to be there and be served. I would get up and find a different place to eat. That kind of person would only bring on more pain and I think this world is full of enough of it without adding more in such a stupid way.
Largely depends if these single men know she is married. If they do, than I don't give a crap what happens to them. You play with a married man / woman than don't be suprised when something bad happens or you get taken advantage of.





If the guy is unware she is married and she is being a d-bag, well what else is there to say..she is a d-bag.
No one should waste their time being in an unhappy marriage in the first place. if they are and their choice is to pursue anyone else, they need to analyze why and take the appropriate path to make themselves happy. This mis-step will not make them happy if true happiness is what they are looking for, it will make things worse. (know from experience)
We all do things we regret. Sometimes when under stress, when depressed, and especially when were angry. It happens to the best of us but you have to own up to it and try to be a better person.
And Now You Are The Prince Charming Coming To The Rescue, Or Just The Guy Who Wants A Fling With A Married Woman With No Cost To Yourself, You Should Be A Quivering Mess For Messing Around With Married Women In The First Place, What Do You Consider Off Limits
She's got some serious issues. And desperately needs help. And may likely get herself hurt along the way.
Stupid
I feel sorry for them,
that is a bad thing to do

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