Thursday, May 13, 2010

What leads a married man with a kid to have interest in another woman and show his emotional interest in her?

openly?





He is about 36. His kid is about 1,5-2 or sth.





How can a man with a kid like and openly date in an emotional way with another woman? Why did he get married and have a kid then? They have happy photos together with the kid and the woman on facebook too.What leads a married man with a kid to have interest in another woman and show his emotional interest in her?
She's not keeping him home. I blame his wife. If she kept him sexually satisfied he wouldn't be shoppingWhat leads a married man with a kid to have interest in another woman and show his emotional interest in her?
If I am understanding your question, a guy who is married with child is flirting with you.





The answer is never simple but in my experience that after a married couple has a child the focus shifts from husband and wife to wife and child / husband and child. Men and women sometimes feel neglected by their spouse and find comfort in another person.





If this married man is flirting with you, put a stop to it, unless you want to be labeled a cheater. If you are struggling with your husband, talk to him, remind each other of why you got married.
My gf went through the same thing her husband and her have been together for 12 years, he has an older child by a different woman and two kids with her. He has a13,4 and 2 yr old, and she just found out that he has been having an affair on her for the past 2 months and they just bought a new house together 4 months ago. She asked him y? He told her that the girl at work reminded him of when she was 17 and they could just go and do whatever they wanted. She said Hello welcome to family life im not 17 anymore and we have three kids, so we cant just up and go as we please. She did end up staying with him cause she loved him and he fathered her two kids. Its hard when you are put into a situation that you never thought you would be thrown into. Some men just think with there penis!!! U need to just leave him alone he is married and has kids and y would you want to get involoved with something like that?
Fear of responsibility of what comes with having a kid.





Fear of change he may not be ready for. Obviously.





Fear that marriage is next.





Fear that he will forced to something he hadn't planned to do.





Affairs usually are not about love and sex, it's usually an interim event that people choose to go through until they are mature enough to make grown up decisions.
Both men and women are guilty of this. Marriage does not mean that your partner gets put on the back burner .... You don't stop dating each other and creating romance even if you are a parent. You date each other and put each other first. My parents got it right. My parents dated each other throughout the marriage. They went on trips away from us kids....and guess what... I grew up and realized that the world did not revolve around me. I love my parents and thank them everyday for showing me how to be a loving parent. Loving parents start with loving and caring for each other FIRST!
Our culture has changed. It used to be that we preached responsibility and the value of family. Not anymore. Now, all we do is concentrate on ourselves.





Marriage vows? No fault divorce. Your spouse is disposable.





Elderly Parents? Nursing home - the parent warehouse.





A baby? No, not if we call it ';a choice.';





We've broken the most sacred of all bonds. Any wonder why Western Civilization is on the brink?
what the heck is 5-2 or sth?





Either way, I've been in a situation similar to this. Yes, you may be flattered but regardless, you gotta spin your body around on the heel and RUN! Don't give in, he has some issues but don't you dare take part in this. It can ruin your life course.
He is not getting what he needs at home.. plain and simple. Too many men %26amp; women think that once you have a Marriage license you can stop working, stop courting, get fat and lazy and expect the handcuffs to stay on.. doesn't work that way.
Maybe he is taking second best at home and the child is being put first and not him.


I find that men are like children and like to be complimented and their ego stroked they like to have someones full attention and need to feel needed.
disinterest in his wife,sexualy, mentaly , and physically but they can get it back and if your the other woman...you shouldnt even ask questions........you should disapear its women like you who ruin somthing that can be fiixed
It's called being influenced by the most powerful organ of a female. Also known as a vagina by most of us.
He is probably looking for something that his wife dosen't give him, men also go through stages after kids and marriage
He's not getting laid at home.





Any further detail you require on this topic?
probably his penis
Simple. He is a disgusting, unfaithul jerk. LOSER ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Enough said.
Simple.





SEX.





Don't fool yourself it's anything else.





He's just had a baby. Leave him alone.
He is what is called a CHEATER!!!
The question is why is the wife allowing it?
Didn't you ask this question already? There are your answers.
trust me, he has no emotional interest... but he does want in her pants.
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  • How is being married different than living together?

    For those of you who lived with someone before marrying them, what changed? Did you just feel more committed, and have legal validation?





    Please do not respond if you have not lived with someone and then married them. Thank you.How is being married different than living together?
    Being married, I really only can say is the most wonderful thing between two people...wakinig up every day to the same person, the knowing, they are there, the comfort in their eyes and their hearts.





    I met my husband on May 15, 1969, and we moved in with each other, 2 wks later, on the 3rd week he ask me to marry him, I did not answer him till the 4th week, and it was yes.....





    we were married on July 1, 1969, yes 39 years ago, and still in love more today than yesterday..we were meant for each other....





    we had our only son when I was 23 yrs old.





    all I can say it is different, not because of a piece of paper, or because people say you should get married and not live together, those reasons are not good enough...





    it has to be because you want it so bad, you think of nothing else, once you know the time is right.





    not saying it works out for everyone, and sometimes you can't make a relationship work no matter how hard both sides try...when this happens, you just hold your head up and move on, and I really and truly belive there is a princess or prince charming out there for you, someone, the one person you will spend the rest of your life with, on the porch in your rocking chairs. but always side by side till the end.





    I wish this for everyone, and each and everyone of you deserve all the happiness in the world you can get...yes, I am a die hard romantic......





    good luckHow is being married different than living together?
    People have a different set of expectations for a husband or wife then they do for a live in boyfriend/girlfriend.





    I definitely felt more committed being married. That being said it is definitely a case by case basis for happiness. I think marriage adds more complications and stress then just living together.





    Mapping out expectations: financially, physically, emotionally and spiritually should happen before marriage. Having concrete, set expectations could avert a lot of early marital challenges.





    Good luck.
    I wish that I had lived with my husband longer before I married him. It was only about two weeks. We are divorced after two years. It will be my rule for the next relationship, not to rush into marriage. Once you've been living together, getting married is just another step, I think that you do feel more committed, but I think you'll also feel more informed (if that is the right word) and more comfortable. I think living together for a year before marriage (or engagement rather) would be a good idea.
    Living together was something like off the 'How I met your mother show. I felt like I was an adult, but in reality there was really no difference to dating except that we resided at the same place. Marriage proposal was suddenly like Whoa, am I really, really sure I want to live with this guy for the rest of my life and am I am really, really ready for this, lol.





    It's my opinion that it doesn't matter if you've lived together for a month, a year, 10 years, marrying does change the dynamics of a relationship, either from your point of view or friends/relatives. Living together, your relationship is taken as serious college students in a lease, if you break up/break lease.....kids stuff, hope you had a security deposit!





    I have friends who only married after many years of a solid living together relationship because they were ready for children, some just wanted to commit, others who never bothered to let anyone know when they went from 'living' to married'.





    Some are still married w/wo children, some divorced with children, some divorced before they even had them!





    I have noticed something, if the person is a 'quitter/bad judgement' in life in general, their relationship/marriage doesn't have a prayer in h*ll.
    I thought it would feel the same, but it feels good to actually be married! My hubby and I lived together 3 years before tying the knot. There is just a stronger feeling of love/commitment. I'm not sure how to describe it. We always said ';we'; before, but now we have the same name, same bank account, same everything. Having the ceremony in front of all of our friends/family was a really wonderful expereince. I guess before marriage I would say my number one people in the world had to still be my parents. Now that I'm married, it's my husband and me against the world.
    I was just reading online that those who live together before marriage have a higher rate of divorce than those who do not.


    I am sorry that I do not fully fit the requirement for a post, but I thought you might like to hear the perspective of someone who lived with someone and also married, but not that same person.


    I lived with a fellow before I married the fellow I am still married to now. The first relationship felt uncertain even though we were in love. I beleiv that living with him is what busted our relationship. The act of waiting to ';act married'; until I was married made my current relationship an even stronger one. The female, especially, statistically feels more secure when she is married. This feeling of insecurity can effect her ability to give into the relationship. These are not just stats on paper. These are things I have observed for more than twenty years in both other couples and in my own relationships.
    my husband and i lived together for a little over a year before our wedding. to us, it was just a bunch of paper and a couple of rings that were different. since we don't have kids yet, there isn't much regarding life insurances, etc just yet. it does give a sense of commitment more than just living together. i'm glad that we did live together beforehand, even though it doesn't work for everyone, it worked for us. we got to know each other, and what makes us tick.
    If he is willing to actually marry you it means he has stopped looking.





    If he is willing only to live with you it means he is still looking, but you are good enough for right now. Plus it means he will have built in maid and it means she will get cheaper rent (usually free).





    Living together proves nothing. Marriage does.
    My guy and I lived together 2 years before we got married, but from the start we were wholly committed to the relationship, the only thing marriage changed was my last name and that I now have insurance.
    ive been married for 7 months, living together for over a year. things are pretty much exactly the same, but it feels nice to be married, we feel more of a connection.
    It just is. It's annoying I know, but it's a very difficult thing to put into words.
    marriage is just a sheet of paper, it is love that coounts
    it shows how much u love each other
    Living together, the guy can keep his money if they break up.


    Married, he is doomed!

    When you get married does it affect how much you get for financial aid?

    My fiance and I want to get married soon but I want to wait till after I graduate. We really wanna get married this summer but we are both scared it will mess with our financial aid for school, that we will get less. Is that true? If not what conditions apply to getting financial aid for school while being married?When you get married does it affect how much you get for financial aid?
    Two incomes will affect your student aid. However, if between the two of you, you still make under what they think you should be making, you should be all right. If you are both students, I suspect you could possibly get more financial aid. But, who knows how exactly they base financial need, it all seems a little screwy to me. You might want to try talking to the financial aid office at your school. They are usually pretty helpful.





    A site I've used...





    http://www.FinancialAidQuick.com/





    Hope that helps.When you get married does it affect how much you get for financial aid?
    It depends on what your income is when you combine your fiance's and yours together. Instead of basing the need for financial assistance on your income it is your joint income once you are married. Your best bet is to sit with your fiance and figure out how much the both of you make together and talk to a financial advisers both of your campuses.
    Yes. Your financial aid is determined based on your income. When you're married you have to report both you and your spouse's income. If you are currently not married and you're using your parents' information then you might end up with more if the combined income of you and your fiance is less than that of you and your parents' income.
    Your financial aid is based off your income so, it will really depend on your combined income. You should speak with your financial aid rep at your school, they would be the best ones to answer this for you

    What is the acceptability within the common society of a married woman getting an abortion?

    So I was wondering, I am not in this situation and do not plan to be, that a married woman, who is living a steady life with normal income, has sex with her husband and discovers she is pregnant, and then wants an abortion.


    Would this be acceptable?


    I mean, there are cases of teenagers having children who choose to or not to have an abortion.


    And please, no religiously based answers or '; it depends on whether she wants a kid'; and similar answers.What is the acceptability within the common society of a married woman getting an abortion?
    It should be up to the woman and she should not care what anyone else thinks. If she is in a good marriage she should talk with her husband that would be an honest thing to do in a marriage.





    It has to finally be acceptable to the woman it's her body and her mind and heart, it is no one else's business.





    Good luck to who ever is making the decision. It isn't an easy question for her.What is the acceptability within the common society of a married woman getting an abortion?
    Acceptable within the common society? There is no such thing. What's acceptable to some may not be to others. If it's legal do whatever you want to do. There will always be the two opposite views on abortion.


    A married woman who finds herself pregnant, by her husband, can make her own decision on what to do and should disregard what any of the two sides think.


    The way to avoid this is to make sure you use the proper precautions to avoid a pregnancy you don't want.
    What does it matter what society thinks?





    Happened to my friend- her and her husband have two children, she became very ill with migraines and her doctor prescribed her some medication that for some odd reason made her bc ineffective and she got pregnant and they decided to not keep it because they hadn't planned on more children. I didn't see the huge fuss- it was their choice.
    Her marital status does not matter. The marital status of the woman has never been used in the abortion rights debate.





    So, you may not like the answer ';it depends on whether she wants a kid';. But ultimately, that's what it comes down to.
    I fully believe it's the woman's choice. Regardless of what the husband says. In most statistic reports she'll be left with the kid in a divorce.You can't rely on the man to be there.
    %26gt; Would this be acceptable?





    Of course it is acceptable, and it happens all the time.





    Roe v. Wade applies to everyone.

    If you are married but your husband is in prison, can you file bankruptcy aside from what he owes?

    The house and car have a lien on it. Can I file bankruptcy and get my name off of these things?If you are married but your husband is in prison, can you file bankruptcy aside from what he owes?
    You should be able to but remember that just as soon as you file then you will have to vacate the house and release the car to the lean holder. And your credit will be ruined for the next 10 years. A question should be asked and that is what are you going to do about a place to live and what are you going to do for transportation. You might be better off to keep these things and work a second job to pay for them.

    I am a married stay at home mom. How should we file on our taxes?

    This is my first year as a stay at home mom. Should I file my husband as head of household and me as a dependant? Also we have never claimed the PMI on our mortgage. How do you backfile?I am a married stay at home mom. How should we file on our taxes?
    Your husband cannot file as head of household if you are married. Head of Household is for one parent home. The PMI deduction is brand new for 07. You should most likely file joint return listing you as dependant %26amp; the 5 kids if they all qualify.I am a married stay at home mom. How should we file on our taxes?
    file married filing jointly. a spouse is never a dependent of the other spouse. and yes, the PMI deduction is new if you itemize.


    If you have already filed 2007 then you need to file an amended return.
    You can only claim your PMI if you itemize...and yes you are his dependent.
    You cannot claim PMI.





    This deduction is new for 2007 and only if you took the loan out IN 2007. Your loan is older than that.
    you should file married filing joint with dependants. Also, the PMI is something new for tax year 2007, so you should definitely file it.

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