Monday, May 10, 2010

My married male coworker and I are planning a trip together, is that a bad thing to do?

My company is sending our department on a retreat for a week. My older married male co-worker who has a baby and I are are planning to extend our trip to another place alone. We are very friendly with each other, we are always IMing each other during and after work hours. Sometimes we flirt. I do have a boyfriend. So nothing is really going on. But can a male and female just be friends and go off on a trip alone? Thanks.My married male coworker and I are planning a trip together, is that a bad thing to do?
no, even if you just think it's innocent flirting, let me tell you something.. it's not (on his part, at least).





guys think they're gonna get sex from girls even when the girl doesn't flirt with him.. imagine now with you two texting back and forth and flirting?





if you go, you will both be tempted. it's easy to get swept up in the moment, especially on vacation. do you really want to be the 'homewrecker' for some guy you're not in love with? or have an awkward work relationship afterward?





i'm not saying you have bad intentions, but he is married and he should have the decency to respect his wife and child. and if he won't.. then you should try putting yourself in his wife's position. home everyday taking care of the baby while her husband is off with some pretty young thing.. it's not fair. you wouldn't want your dad doing that to your family or your husband doing that to you.My married male coworker and I are planning a trip together, is that a bad thing to do?
UM DUH! If you had to ask, you already know the answer. That is such a bad on idea on so many levels its not even funny. You are a woman, how can you even THINK about doing that to another woman? How would you feel if the situation was reversed? Would you mind if your boyfriend ';extended'; his business trip to be alone with a female coworker that he was ';supposedly'; innocently flirting with? Probably not, and if you did, well then honey you have some major issues to work out.
Yes they can be friends but NO they cannot do wat ur planning neither of u have ne buisness extending ur trip to be alone thats wrong on a few levels your entering in a bad territory and i garauntee his wife wont like it one lil bit and if u really need to ask then u must know somewhere its wrong also if ur sonfused how bout u ask his wife and shell sure tell u.If she doesnt know about the extention then its wrong if she knows but is very against it its wrong if u would do or say somthing in front of his wife or ur bf then it must be wrong
If you were his wife, would it be okay with you for your husband to take a little trip non-business trip with his female co-worker?





If it wouldn't be okay with you if you were in her shoes, then it's not okay. If you aren't sure if she minds, call her and ask her.
Don't do it. If you had to ask, you should know it is a bad idea. Tell him that you can't go.
u know this is a BAD IDEA or u wouldnt of ask for one


two if he cared anything bout his family he wouldnt even put it as risk - hes thinking something is gonna happen! WATCH!*
No its not okay.





I cannot believe you are asking this question.





find your own man...leave someone else alone.
yes its a very bad thing to do

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