Sunday, January 17, 2010

What are the signs that a married man is interested in you?

Just curious cuz I get a weird vibe about someone. The smiles, everything I say something he sais he does too like we have lots in common, leaning into me when we talk, yada yada.





I have no interest in persuing him at all just gettin the weird vibes that it is hard for him to keep things professional with me.What are the signs that a married man is interested in you?
That weird vibe is your gut. It knows. Listen to it. Stay away from this guy.What are the signs that a married man is interested in you?
These are sure signs he is interested in you, but its upto to you to decide and keep yourself away from all this. Eventually he will stop all this when he sees that his charm works no more on you. Dont fall into a mess, since he is already married it is likely that he will commit anytime, he is just having a good time trying to draw your attention.Maybe you can check on all this when his wife is around (maybe in an office get together), probably he may not even give you a look.
Many married men are interested in sex on the side. Not any particular woman, just whomever they think is approachable and will have sex with them. It has nothing to do with the woman, just the low morals of the man. They typically feel out each woman whom they consider even half way attractive. Many women signal back in subtle ways that they don't mind cheating with a loser scumbag. Steer clear.
maybe he is one of those types of people who do not understand peoples need for personal space. maybe if you tell him that you feel he is invasive of your personal space and tell him he is a close talker and to please back it off, he might get the hint and talk to you from a comfortable distance. If you tell him this, and he is interested in you, then he will get the picture that you are not interested either way its win win.
Married men can be like that because women , and only women allow men to have their cake and eat it, the only day men will stop betraying women with women will be when women stop betraying other women, as simple and as difficult as that.


Of course he's up for it, but not because he likes you but because he wants sex, all you need is a few well placed ';you are slime and I'm not going there'; looks and hey ho it's back to work and business...thats what you both get paid for right? At the moment you have every reason to respect yourself, stay in that place, for the sake of your self esteem, you do not want to become another dumped mistress statistic.
Yeah, seriously you can just tell by the way he looks at you. If he looks at you longer than a normal glance, and holds your stare, he likes you. =)





I had a married man like me before, he was a recent graduate of med school %26amp; was my neighbor...but I was married as well. The next time he looked at me with a smile and that longing stare, I quickly looked at the ground sharply.





After that, he got the message and stopped liking me (I could tell because I didn't receive the vibes nor the stares). He understood that I wouldn't cheat on my husband for sex.





Lady, the temptations are there. I know. It IS difficult. There are so many hot guys out there - married or single.And once you've had sex several times and dwell in the adult life (from a teenage life), it's hard to NOT think about sex.





But stick to the non-taken ones. It's hard NOT to cheat, especially if a man is pursuing you. It's kind of like the fast food industry. So many yummy foods out there, chocolates to donuts....hamburgers, chili cheese fries, cakes.... but every time you indulge in something bad (ie. married men or taken men), you hurt yourself and the person being hurt.





Fantasies are always wonderful, but they're not accurate. Maybe having sex with married men is ';harmless'; but there is so much more weight behind that, than just that one night of passion.





So just know, if you intend to let him pursue you, there are repercussions that follow sex or whatever else you did. It is not a free ride.
If he went out with you,he would never be true to you. If a man or woman cheat on there spouse , they would cheat on you too. Once a cheater always a cheater. Is this the kind of person you would really want.Go find someone who is not married. You are only looking to get hurt and to hurt others.The pain you get I will not feel sorry for you. But I do feel sorry for the people you will be hurting.
Point out all the things to him you just pointed out to us. He may think he is being sly and you won't shine a light on what you see. Tell him that the way you see it and you want it to stop.


Ifhe doesn't like it, he is probablay some kind of control freak who wants women to be too timid or intimidated to be up front with him about his behavior.


Tell him it's needs to stop or you will need to discuss sexual harassment with human resources.
Putting aside the vanity here for a sec, how about maybe he does this with ALL the girls. Hes a flirt. Wanna kill that vibe? ask him how his wife is? Keep reminding him that he HAS a wife and that you know. Help keep him straight.





Usually a married man looking for action begins with complainig about everything in his wife and marriage and acts like he doesnt care anymore.
Your figure must be the main factor of attraction, once you are used to having sex then that excitement is always there, even if you do not want to have sex relations you might be enjoying visual sex, the same would be on the other side, just keep your cleavage more open %26amp; visible %26amp; see the reaction.
Well that is your gut and when you are feeling something like this it is usually spot on. I say just keep things on the downlow. Don't give him any ideas that you are interested. Keep it professional.
Just be emotionally unavailable for him. Although he's not looking for your emotions anyway. He will get it.
Sounds suss, I would keep my distance just incase. I would definitely not like my man acting like that with another woman. Good on you for picking it up lol
If your not interested then why does it matter.
What a sleaze. Act colds towards him and he'll get the message. His poor wife.
whatever you doo make sure that you will keep distance of sort of married man

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