Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Is there a difference between a married lady and a married feminist?

Ideologies are imbibed at an adult stage but biology is inherited so how do we go about answering this question?Is there a difference between a married lady and a married feminist?
Who says a person who has feminist beliefs can't still be a lady, too...or that they can't be happily married for that matter? All this either/or, black or white stuff. Sheesh.





Just FTR there are notable feminists who have had long happy marriages! It's not impossible, you know.





NY Congresswoman Bella Abzug and her husband Martin Abzug were married for 42 years. Their marriage which was based on love, respect, and a generosity of spirit unrivaled in political circles, enabled Bella's activities. He was her biggest fan...and she his. When Martin died, Bella was inconsolable.





The actress/activist Marlo Thomas and her husband Phil Donahue have been happily married since 1980.Is there a difference between a married lady and a married feminist?
i have no idea what the part below the question says, but feminist and lady are not at all correlated





a lady is either a way to plainly describe gender or a woman of society


a feminist is what you call someone with certain values (not necessaril a woman)
A married lady has a husband who usually enjoys her. A married feminist has a husband who is basically a subservient woman himself and enjoys being ordered around and listening to his ''wife'' ***** and blame everything on him and his gender because certainly nothing could possibly be her fault.
So, what is this a cut to us woman who are happily married as well and are not feminist? Yeah swift, real swift. So,anyone can have a beautiful marriage just so long as they're committed and I mean *anyone*.
The 1st is a decent wife and the other is a hairy-hideous witch who sucks the life out of the husband and makes life miserable for everybody in the vicinity
Why can't there be both at the same time - e.g., a married lady who is also a feminist? Doesn't seem out of line to me.





P.S. Bless you xoxoxo for being the open-minded soul you are.
Uhm, yes. Guys can be feminists too.
I would say look for major conflict, with the marriage on the rocks most of the time or a one sided marriage with the guy constantly being abused and neglected.
ONE IS FINE AND THE OTHER UGLY

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